New Mexico Swinger Clubs - NM Sex Clubs and Parties (Updated 2024)

Whether you have been involved in the lifestyle for years or are just beginning and still wondering the differences between a vixen, hotwife, cuckold, stag, unicorn, bull, cuckoldress, mistress, or swinger.

Swinging refers to a non-monogamous lifestyle where couples, or sometimes individuals, engage in consensual sexual activities with others outside their primary relationship. These activities can range from attending social events and parties to engaging in sexual encounters with other consenting adults.

In New Mexico, like in many other states, there is a discreet and private community of swingers. Swingers often connect through various online platforms, swinger clubs, or private parties. These venues provide a space for like-minded individuals and couples to meet, socialize, and explore consensual sexual experiences.

It's important to emphasize that participation in swinging is a personal choice and should always be based on open communication, trust, and mutual agreement between all parties involved. If you're interested in exploring swinging, it's recommended to do thorough research, join reputable online communities, and establish clear boundaries and expectations with your partner or partners.

Remember, the rules and practices within the swinging community can vary widely, so it's crucial to communicate openly and honestly with potential partners to ensure a safe and enjoyable experience for everyone involved.

Swingers Clubs in New Mexico

Spectrum Parties

Do you like to go out and get wild and crazy?

Would you like to push the boundaries set by society?

Have you heard about the lifestyle?

Spectrum Parties is a private membership lifestyle club. We are not constrained by a lease or a liquore license. Parties are thrown at hotels, homes, clubs and venues. 

Because we don't serve Alcohol,  and we are a private membership club, you can do things you can not do in a public setting. This does not mean you have to participate. We have very specific rules of consent and you will find that the people you meet are among the most honest and down to earth people you will ever meet. Yes, some people will have sex. Others will watch. Lots of people use parties as a way to meet others and hook up with them later. You can get as wild and crazy as you like, up to the level you are comfortable with. 

We have the best parties in the Southwest, and have hooked up many couples and singles for more private encounters. We like to think that we are open to everybody, and every kind of body, of any age. One of our goals is to promote the Lifestyle and Polyamory. We believe in a sex positive culture and hope that you’ll join us. 

At our parties, you will find people 21 and up, large and small, swingers, polyamory, LBTGQ+, BDSM and Kinksters.  We ask that everyone respect everyone else. You may not be into everything you see, and that is ok. Just be nice and move on. 

Mountain Dawn Lodge

After a six-year break, Dave and Dawn Metz have opened the Mountain Dawn Lodge, a spacious venue nestled in the Sangre de Cristo Mountains of Northern New Mexico.  This club was designed with fun, leisure and privacy in mind.  It is a spacious two-story lodge with 11 private bedrooms--8 of those have private bathrooms and 3 shared bathrooms.  There are sweeping public areas, several separate large play areas, a game room, a theater room, a mirrored dance floor with 2 stripper poles, a large hot tub enclosed in a private patio with fireplace and sunbathing areas, and even a green house.  There are incredible views of the mountains or the lake from almost every room.  As you stroll through the club, there are little surprises everywhere you turn; from the art, themed bedrooms, and unique decorations all around.  The disco lighting and stereo sound system add to the atmosphere of fun.  There are even several large screen televisions in different areas.  Of course, there is a commercial grade kitchen and a huge bar area.  The cooking is always wonderful and diverse.  They will cater to requests.  To keep things fresh, improvement and additions are always being made.

Daveand Dawn are not new to the club scene, and many of you will remember them from Couples Choice.  They have been in the Lifestyle for over 30 years and their experience will ensure your time spent here will be memorable, whether you choose to visit for the night or an extended stay.

Starting with their first Annual Halloween Costume Party in October, 2011, the Metz's will be holding themed parties at least every other month.  Our local area includes 3 ski resorts nearby for those snow bunnies who like to play in the snow--Angel Fire, Red River and Taos.  There is fun to be had by skiers, snowboarders, and tubers.  In the summer, we have down-hill mountain bike races, 4-wheeler tours and horse tours.  You can even pan for gold.  There are 3 general aviation air ports nearby: Angel Fire, Taos and Raton.

Fun, food, entertainment and the opportunity to meet new friends.  What else could you ask for?

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The Clubhouse, Albuquerque, NM

We are the only commercial swingers club in Albuquerque New Mexico. We have 5 private playrooms with beds and couches. There is a large community area with a snack bar and comfortable seating. We have setup a large public playroom. The Billiards area is always a popular place to shoot a friendly game of pool and get to know someone. We have a large dance area playing popular music. You can always request your favorite song. 

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First Swingers Club In New Mexico

Going to a swingers club can be an exciting but also daunting experience, especially for first-timers. Here are some tips and strategies to help ensure a positive and enjoyable experience:

Before going:

1. Research: Look up the clubs in your area. Read reviews, understand their rules, policies, and requirements (e.g., membership fees, dress codes, and conduct expectations). It's also a good idea to know the theme for the night if there is one.
2. Communication: Discuss with your partner what your expectations, boundaries, and comfort levels are. Remember, open and honest communication is key.
3. Contact the club: If possible, call or email the club. They can provide you with information about their establishment and can answer any questions you may have.
4. Prepare your essentials: Purchase any outfits or costumes you may need. Swingers clubs often have dress codes, ranging from casual to themed to very upscale, so ensure you're appropriately attired. Pack protection (condoms, dental dams, etc.). Some clubs provide these, but it's always safer to bring your own.

During your visit:

1. Respect boundaries: Everyone at the club is there to have a good time, but that doesn't mean everyone is open to everything. Make sure to respect the boundaries of others and expect them to respect yours.

2. Communicate: Talk with your partner throughout the evening. Check in with each other to ensure you're both comfortable with what's happening.

3. Consent is key: Always ensure that there is explicit consent from all parties involved before engaging in any activities.

4. Take it slow: Especially on your first visit, there's no need to rush into anything. Feel free to just observe and get a feel for the environment.

After your visit:

1. Discuss the experience: Talk about what you liked and didn't like. Was there anything that made you uncomfortable? Was there anything you'd like to try next time?

2. Aftercare: Depending on your experience, you might need some emotional or physical aftercare. Be supportive of each other and take care of any physical needs.

3. Plan for the next time: If you enjoyed your experience and feel comfortable going back, discuss what you might want to do differently for your next visit.

Remember, the most important thing is that you and your partner are comfortable and enjoying yourselves. Each person's experience with a swingers club can be very different, so it's important to do what feels right for you.