North Carolina Swinger Clubs - NC Sex Clubs and Parties (Updated 2024)

Whether you have been involved in the lifestyle for years or are just beginning and still wondering the differences between a vixen, hotwife, cuckold, stag, unicorn, bull, cuckoldress, mistress, or swinger.

Swinging refers to a non-monogamous lifestyle where couples, or sometimes individuals, engage in consensual sexual activities with others outside their primary relationship. These activities can range from attending social events and parties to engaging in sexual encounters with other consenting adults.

In North Carolina, like in many other states, there is a discreet and private community of swingers. Swingers often connect through various online platforms, swinger clubs, or private parties. These venues provide a space for like-minded individuals and couples to meet, socialize, and explore consensual sexual experiences.

It's important to emphasize that participation in swinging is a personal choice and should always be based on open communication, trust, and mutual agreement between all parties involved. If you're interested in exploring swinging, it's recommended to do thorough research, join reputable online communities, and establish clear boundaries and expectations with your partner or partners.

Remember, the rules and practices within the swinging community can vary widely, so it's crucial to communicate openly and honestly with potential partners to ensure a safe and enjoyable experience for everyone involved.

Swingers Clubs in North Carolina

Club C3 at Lucky Lovers, New Bern, NC

We are an adults-only, clothing optional campground located in New Bern, North Carolina. You can rent one of our bungalows or cabins, reserve one of our many full hookup RV sites, or reserve a space for a tent. We also have numerous events throughout the year. These events are a great place to hang out with old friends or meet new ones. Check out our event calendar for upcoming events. Feel free to visit our pricing page for lodging rates and event fees. First time visiting us? Visit our tips and what to expect pages to help you enjoy your stay.

You Know Where Club

YKW is open every Saturday night from 8pm –3am. Our Saturday parties are for couples and females only. We are the only on-premise club in eastern North Carolina. We have a large social room with a wooden dance floor, and a brass pole for that aspiring dancer. Tables and seating for 40 couples, sitting room with xxx video, private on-premise rooms, love swing, sybian vibrator, 8 person card table, large outdoor area, pool table, and dart board. Our parties are BYOB (Bring Your Own Beer) and limited to beer and wine products only, no hard alcohol is allowed. We provide most everything you need and all the setups from bottled water, soft drinks, food, and snacks to condoms, lubes, and wipes. Absolutely NO pressure, no one is required to do anything that they do not wish to do. Great for new couples, soft swingers and experienced alike. No drugs, or hard alcohol. No membership or membership dues. Reservations suggested but not required. We are the Carolina’s #1 Lifestyle Party!!! Our Saturday Parties are for Couples (M/F or F/F) and female’s only, no single men are allowed on our Saturday parties. Out of area NASCA Affiliate membership cards honored.

Carolina Friends

Carolina Friends is more than just an event host; we are a community that has thrived on the principles of inclusion, acceptance, and the pursuit of sexual expression since our inception. Our journey began in 2016 when we acquired Carolina Friends due to the unfortunate ALMOST closure of its doors. At that time, we were actively hosting CF Greensboro events, but the news of closure compelled us to reflect on where our cherished members, friends, and ourselves would continue enjoying like-minded members. This challenging moment marked the start of our commitment to preserve the spirit of Carolina Friends and its legacy.

Our Current Operation

Today, our operations revolve around creating unforgettable experiences for couples and individuals in the Triad area. We specialize in Full Hotel Takeover events that bring together like-minded individuals seeking a space to express themselves freely. These events are packed with exciting features, including live DJs, expansive dance floors, private couples' activity areas, late-night breakfast gatherings, and member hosted social rooms designed for smaller meet and greets. During the warmer months, we also indulge in pool parties, adding a splash of excitement to our gatherings.

Each event we host attracts an incredible and diverse crowd from all corners, ensuring that every gathering is a melting pot of personalities, desires, and experiences.

Our Values and Mission

Throughout our journey, we have remained steadfast in upholding the original values and ideals that have been at the heart of Carolina Friends since its inception. Inclusivity is paramount to us, and we extend a warm welcome to all who share an interest in the lifestyle. Our events bring together friendly couples, single females, and carefully selected single males, fostering an environment where like-minded individuals can forge deep friendships and explore their desires with the utmost privacy and respect.

Our members have been our guiding light and the backbone of our community. Their unwavering support has enabled us to thrive and continue creating an environment that champions non-judgmental sexual freedom. We prioritize the comfort and safety of our members above all else, ensuring that they can explore their passions and fantasies in a secure and welcoming environment.

CAROLINA SOCIALS
Dave & Mary P.O. Box 273 Lexington, NC 27293
(704) 956-6318
OFF PREMISE

Couples-for-Massage
Greenville, NC
E-mail: mailto:mail@couples-for-massage.com  or gt;mail@couples-for-massage.com 
Come join us for couples erotic massage and weekend sensual gatherings. The parties create an atmosphere that encourages sensual friendships. We enjoy massage, sensual play and other delights. Soft swinging is welcome but more is available if you wish. Of course, all activities are optional. We sponsor two-day weekend events in New England and full-day Saturday events in North Carolina. Events are for couples only. Massage instruction is provided. Costs are only for housing and food which is shared. All couples have private bedrooms. The New England location is a beautiful mountain valley with hot tub. The North Carolina location has a heated swimming pool and hot tub. No membership required.
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Erotic Temptations
New Bern, NC
252-617-7008, etemptations18@yahoo.com

Greensboro's PDC Club
Altamahaw, NC
rlbsgps@yahoo.com

Greensboro United Special Friends
PO Box 3544, Burlington, NC 27217
910-570-3400
Regularly scheduled socials for couples only. No single men, drugs, drunks. Nudity is not permited in the public area of the hotel. No food or drink may be taken from the ballroom.

OurPlaceNC
John, 9208 US Hwy#401 South, Erwin, NC 28339
910-897-5887; Email: ourplacenc@earthlink.net 
On-Premise Couples Only BYOB

PARADISE INTERNATIONAL
P.O. Box 8825 Rocky Mount, NC 27804
(919) 443-7818
OFF PREMISE

Sensual Stroking
Greenville, NC
E-mail: mainefarm@earthlink.net
Come join us for couples erotic massage and weekend sensual gatherings. The parties create an atmosphere that encourages sensual friendships. We enjoy massage, sensual play and other delights. Soft swinging is welcome but more is available if you wish. Of course, all activities are optional. We sponsor two-day weekend events in New England and full-day Saturday events in North Carolina. Events are for couples only. Massage instruction is provided. Costs are only for housing and food which is shared. All couples have private bedrooms. The New England location is a beautiful mountain valley with hot tub. The North Carolina location has a heated swimming pool and hot tub. No membership required.

The Loft – Gastonia, NC

We ARE an education based Social Group and Dungeon located in Gastonia, NC.  We offer a kink friendly environment in which to relax and play, enjoy stimulating conversations where nothing is taboo, have noisy scene time, or a place to get away with freedoms for kink not always available in a hotel.

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Camelot Social Club, Charlotte, NC

Bringing the swinging lifestyle back to Charlotte, stronger than ever!

We intend on bringing the Swinging Lifestyle back stronger than ever to the Charlotte area by holding monthly affordable parties in a safe and controlled environment where you can be yourself, dress as sexy as you want and have fun with other likeminded people in the lifestyle.

Our long term goal is to eventually have a permanent on premises club that you all can call home. In the meantime we will need everyone’s support to make this a reality so please join us at our monthly events and tell your friends about Camelot Social Club.

Club Red Door Venue

We are located just outside of Charlotte NC. In the small town of Gastonia just off of I85.                

Welcome to Club Red Door. We are a private 21 and older club. We welcome you to join us in a fun relaxed adult environment. 

 We are a BYOB club we do have light snacks and water. Please no hard liquor! We will be checking coolers. 

Please be mindful that our dance floor is upstairs and recommend no overly large coolers. We don't provide ice for your coolers. And we Don't have a place to keep your alcohol cold. 

Membership is required and can be purchased at the door. Membership fees are $10 annual donation. Plus, your donation entry fee with a Valid photo ID and valid email address will be required NO EXCEPTIONS.

Members has to sign a liability waiver when entering the Club.  

Single males will be strictly limited. If you would like to attend Club Red Door, you will need to send me a message. If you don't have a message to show the front door saying you can attend, you will be turned away. You will need a message each time you attend. When sending a message please include a picture of you along with how long you been in the lifestyle and a list of other lifestyle clubs and parties you have attended in the past.

The club hours of operation will be from 9pm until 2am on Friday and 8pm until 2am on Saturday. At 11pm doors will close, and no additional attendees will be allowed. Dress down gives the ladies the opportunity to dress in lingerie or just in a little less clothing.

We offer 5 rooms plus a theater room and dungeons room. We also have lockers and locks for your convenience.

We have plenty of parking at the Club and also 2 overflow parking lots if needed. The overflow parking is within walking distance from the club. We have a parking attendant that will assist you with the parking. 

Please Email me for Address to the Club @ ccrawford1875@hotmail.com

Carolina Friends
PO Box 561294, Charlotte, NC 28256-1294
704-559-5951; Email: mail@carolinafriends.com
Hotel socials, Night club parties and more! Couples only. Hotel socials feature hospitality suites, newcomers seminar, dances on both Fri. and Sat. evenings, dinner buffet and more! Nightclub parties and hotel socials offer the friendliest group around, great music and an opportunity to meet hundreds of couples in a completely private, no pressure setting. Est. 6/91. Sponsors Friends United, on online club for select singles and couples. Membership required. Valid out of area club memberships honored. NASCA-I Affiliate membership. cards honored..

Statesville Edition
PO Box 561265, Charlotte, NC 28256
704-878-2429
Located in the midst of the woodlands and streams of the beautiful Blue Ridge Mountains. A private dance club for open minded couples who enjoy nasty dancing, good, clean adult fun and the pleasure of the company of other maried, committed couples. Monthly socials in the intimate ambiance of a friendly hotel.

TANTRA UNIVERSALIST
P.O. Box 372 Elizabeth Station Charlotte, NC 27804

The Melting Pot For Adult Fun
Charlotte, NC
info@mp4af.com

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Ludus Social Club

Ludus Social Club is honored to have you as our patrons.  Our over 21 private club is successful and your support has been fantastic!  Tuesday is free pool!  Wednesday is Beer Pong!  Thursday sing and/or dance.  Friday Nite Karaoke! Saturday's nites we have a theme to provide a fun and different atmosphere.  Dress in theme if you wish or in other evening attire and visit.  Feel free to dress the part!  Come over for some socializing!  Please stay tuned to this site and our facebook page as well.   We have a limited the amount of Unescorted Men on Saturdays. I strongly suggest you call before coming out!    910-399-6375

If you are considering an alternate lifestyle, visit, observe and ask questions.  We welcome everyone - experienced or new.  Reminder, Ludus Social Club ia all about safety, privacy, and a non-judgemental environment in which to socialize.

$10 Entry Fee Per Person (couples & females)

for Saturday Night Events after 7 PM

Single or Un-escorted Men, Saturday $25 Entry Fee

Please Dress to Impress

Annual Membership is $20 per person & Everyone Needs a Membership to Enter!  Bring your Driver's License!!!

Note:  Couples have asked us to limit Single/Un-escorted Men on Saturdays.  Please call before venturing out 910.399.6375.

Carolina Coastal Edition
PO Box 2645, Wilmington, NC 28402
910-570-3400
A private dance club for couples only. Monthly theme parties are held on the luxurious beaches of the NC coast. A no pressure club that is relaxed and friendly. If you are 30+ and enjoy the company of intimate friends call today.

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First Swingers Club In North Carolina

Going to a swingers club can be an exciting but also daunting experience, especially for first-timers. Here are some tips and strategies to help ensure a positive and enjoyable experience:

Before going:

1. Research: Look up the clubs in your area. Read reviews, understand their rules, policies, and requirements (e.g., membership fees, dress codes, and conduct expectations). It's also a good idea to know the theme for the night if there is one.
2. Communication: Discuss with your partner what your expectations, boundaries, and comfort levels are. Remember, open and honest communication is key.
3. Contact the club: If possible, call or email the club. They can provide you with information about their establishment and can answer any questions you may have.
4. Prepare your essentials: Purchase any outfits or costumes you may need. Swingers clubs often have dress codes, ranging from casual to themed to very upscale, so ensure you're appropriately attired. Pack protection (condoms, dental dams, etc.). Some clubs provide these, but it's always safer to bring your own.

During your visit:

1. Respect boundaries: Everyone at the club is there to have a good time, but that doesn't mean everyone is open to everything. Make sure to respect the boundaries of others and expect them to respect yours.

2. Communicate: Talk with your partner throughout the evening. Check in with each other to ensure you're both comfortable with what's happening.

3. Consent is key: Always ensure that there is explicit consent from all parties involved before engaging in any activities.

4. Take it slow: Especially on your first visit, there's no need to rush into anything. Feel free to just observe and get a feel for the environment.

After your visit:

1. Discuss the experience: Talk about what you liked and didn't like. Was there anything that made you uncomfortable? Was there anything you'd like to try next time?

2. Aftercare: Depending on your experience, you might need some emotional or physical aftercare. Be supportive of each other and take care of any physical needs.

3. Plan for the next time: If you enjoyed your experience and feel comfortable going back, discuss what you might want to do differently for your next visit.

Remember, the most important thing is that you and your partner are comfortable and enjoying yourselves. Each person's experience with a swingers club can be very different, so it's important to do what feels right for you.