Virginia Swinger Clubs - VA Sex Clubs and Parties (Updated 2024)

Whether you have been involved in the lifestyle for years or are just beginning and still wondering the differences between a vixen, hotwife, cuckold, stag, unicorn, bull, cuckoldress, mistress, or swinger.

Swinging refers to a non-monogamous lifestyle where couples, or sometimes individuals, engage in consensual sexual activities with others outside their primary relationship. These activities can range from attending social events and parties to engaging in sexual encounters with other consenting adults.

In Virginia, like in many other states, there is a discreet and private community of swingers. Swingers often connect through various online platforms, swinger clubs, or private parties. These venues provide a space for like-minded individuals and couples to meet, socialize, and explore consensual sexual experiences.

It's important to emphasize that participation in swinging is a personal choice and should always be based on open communication, trust, and mutual agreement between all parties involved. If you're interested in exploring swinging, it's recommended to do thorough research, join reputable online communities, and establish clear boundaries and expectations with your partner or partners.

Remember, the rules and practices within the swinging community can vary widely, so it's crucial to communicate openly and honestly with potential partners to ensure a safe and enjoyable experience for everyone involved.

Swingers Clubs in Virginia

Virginia’s Secret, VA

VA Friends, VA

Mid-Atlantic Social Club
12750 Jeff Davis Hwy PMB 226, Chester, VA 23831-5308
804-674-0508; Email: midatlsc@aol.com
Off-Premise night club Membership Required

NOVA_ swingers
M.Walshinsky, Northern , VA.
(703) 404-0534 E-mail:swingers_2_2000@yahoo.com
NOVA_swingers is a healthy & active community of swingers in Northern Virginia. The club hosts monthly swing parties in the Northern VA. area for local couples to meet, greet & play. Condom usage is required at all events. No means No & respect each other. We look forward to meeting new friends & welcome new friends to our group. Our couples range from early 20's to early 50's. We have all shapes, sizes & races. Our average party consists of 8-10 couples, sometimes more in a relaxed-no pressure-play atmosphere. Come relax & play in Northern Virginia

Rites of Bacchus Entertainment (ROBE) Washington DC Metro
Juicy Lucy & Martin, 3800 N. Fairfax Drive, Suite 5 / Arlington, VA 22203
Phone: (703) 846-8200 E-mail:info@ritesofbacchus.com
ROBE currently runs quarterly events that can only be described as a carnival of sexual pleasures... a Sexapalooza, if you will! These are on-premises events where the organizers provide a feast for all the senses, especially your sense of touch! Each event has a theme that guests can choose to participate in, or simply come in and luxuriate in the provocative atmosphere. Clothing is optional and nudity is mandatory in the play areas. Somewhere between a NY dance club, burlesque show, a wine & cheese party and an erotic circus, these events are truly unique, and lovingly crafted by the team of people who put them on. They are open to mixed-sex couples, female-only couples, and single females. The events are private parties, so membership is required. The membership fee is very nominal, though, and the benefits are great! So plan to make the necessary arrangements to attend the next one.
Web:www.ritesofbacchus.com

tarz
Peter, PO Box 1000 Ste 262, Merrifield, VA 22116-1000
301-961-7174; Email: info@starzsite.org
Formerly Capital Couples. One of the areas oldest clubs in continuous operation. Off-premises dance/socials for cpls. and sgl. ladies. Saturday night events are held every 2-3 weeks with 50-100 couples attending. Games, a DJ and contests are included. Members only. One night $10, six months $25 & $40 for a full year. Serving DC, Maryland and Virginia area.

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Virginia Friends
P.O. Box 56641
Virginia Beach, VA 23456
757-389-8269

ABOUT THE CLUB  (BTW, This club is for Couples and Single Females ONLY!)

First let us start off by saying welcome and we are glad you are here at our website. 

So you would like to learn a little more about our club.  Great!!!  Maybe you are experienced in the lifestyle and looking for a place to broaden your experiences.   Or you are completely new, and looking for a place to "break the ice" and initiate yourself into the lifestyle.  Either way Virginia Friends is the perfect place.  We have found that the best way to meet "like minded" couples is through socials like ours.  We have all heard the stories of other couples trying magazine ads, telephone services, personals, the Internet, etc.  Maybe it's even happened to you.  After sifting through dozens of potential people who you think you might want to get together with, you spend countless hours trying to get to know them although you have never met in person. When you finally decide it's time to meet  98% of the time it's a complete failure and disappointment because they are too pushy or it takes forever to plan a meeting or they tell you lies and send bogus pictures or after all the trouble, you find out you don't relate and have to try and get out of an uncomfortable situation.  On top of all that IT'S DANGEROUS!!!  You are meeting complete strangers in an uncontrolled environment.

Virginia Friends is a completely different, much more relaxed, secure atmosphere.  Here you are under no obligation to do ANYTHING you do not want to.  The golden rule is "NO MEANS NO!"  You actually get to meet, see and talk to the people from the very start. And there is no uncomfortable expectations on you.  Let me walk you through an idea of what you might encounter at a Virginia Friends social.

When you first arrive at one of our socials you will notice our events take place in a clean, safe, well maintained area at a nationally known hotel .  If you are staying at the hotel you will check into your room (don't worry, the hotel staff treats you no differently than any other guest). If you have arrived early enough, between 3-5pm,  you can register at early registration set up at the hotel lounge. (check with schedule on the newsletter page as this may vary).

Once you get settled you will attended a newcomer’s seminar in the hotel lounge.  This is MANDATORY for all first time members even if you have been in the lifestyle many years.  The main purpose is to answer any questions you might have about the club or lifestyle, and to familiarize you with local rules, guidelines, club rules and etiquette, etc.  It's very informal and also gives you a chance to meet other couples ahead of time.  Anywhere from 5 to 20 new couples may attend the seminar at any given social.  

When the seminar is over  you will register at the registration desk set up outside the lounge if you have not already done so at early registration. You and your partner must each show a valid drivers license as proof of age.  Here you will pay any fees due and receive your wristbands and optional name tags.  Wristbands are worn so you can easily tell club members from regular hotel guests and so our security staff can tell who you are.  They must be worn all night and to gain admittance to the club floor upstairs.  Virginia Friends provides security for your  benefit,  privacy, and protection.  They mingle with the crowd in a very low key manner, and make sure only members are allowed admittance to members' areas (the lounge and the club floor).  You will be able to identify them by the shirts they wear and state of the art headsets which allow them to be in constant contact with each other.  Remember they are there for you and not the other hotel guests.

Now the fun begins!!!  The dance!!!  Most dances average 65 or more couples in varying age groups of 25 to 55.  Have you ever been to a nightclub with about 200 people dancing and socializing?  Our dances are no different.  The only exception is you will probably meet more people and you don't have to worry about single men hitting on your spouse.   Every one there has the same thing on their mind.  A night out to have fun and enjoy your spouse with the possibility of a little extra bonus thrown in!!!  There is no pressure.  Our live entertainment plays the latest in music to keep your feet tapping and the people are open and friendly. Just don’t be wallflowers.  Whatever you do make it a rule to meet people!!  But don't set your expectations too high.  Go with the thought that you are going to "just check it out the first time."  If you don't worry too much about the sex part, you will have a blast!!! Don't be afraid to mingle and talk to people.  You will be pleasantly surprised at how easy it is to start a conversation.  It feels great to be around "like minded" people.  If something happens and you meet another couple that interests you, great.  Or if you aren't ready no big deal.  There is always the next social or the one after that.  At VAF you set your own pace.  

The hotel provides a full service cash bar with professional bartenders to serve your favorite drinks.  We do suggest, if you are going to be drinking, get a room so you won't have to drive.

Once the dance ends the party moves to the club floor (the 2nd floor of the hotel).  The entire floor is reserved and only Virginia Friends members can gain admittance.  Security is posted at all entrances.  On the club floor anything goes.  We provide mixers and munchies...you BYOB.  The hospitality suite is open to continue your socializing.  An adjoining room  to the hospitality suite is provided for the more adventurous and "group" oriented couples.  Many times you will find the famous Sybian there for your enjoyment.  Or if you prefer something more personal all member rooms are located on the club floor with the exception of the members who prefer the non-smoking floor or when we have too many members attending to fit on the club floor.  Then the second floor rooms are booked on a first come first serve basis with members paying online having first choice.  Over flow is moved to the other floor in that order.  Whether or not you pay online and the time at which you reserve your room through the hotel will determine who has priority, NOT when you RSVP to an event.  

You will find all kinds of swing at our club.  From soft swing, to sex in the same bed with no swapping, to anything goes, to just watching.  It's all up to you.  What ever you want or don't want.  No hassle, no pressure.  Come and see for yourself.

Now just a short overview of club policies that are good to know before you attend:  

·        Absolutely NO controlled substances.

·        Each couple must have a signed club agreement on file.

·        Each couple must be 21 or older. We have the right to check IDs.

·        Club issued name tags and wristbands are required.

·        Proper dress is required in all public areas of the hotel.

·        VA ABC laws must be adhered to at all times. These laws include:

1.     No nudity in the lounge area. This includes no visible thongs ladies.

2.     All drinks purchased in the lounge must be consumed in the lounge.

3.     Drinks not purchases in the lounge may not be brought into the lounge.

4.     Bartenders are obligated to refuse service to anyone they deem too intoxicated.

·        Protect the privacy of the club and other members:

1.     Do not invite non-members to the club floor.

2.     Be careful in places where non-members can hear your conversation.

3.     Do not make suggestive comments or flaunt your activities around other hotel guests or staff.

4.  Keep all club and lifestyle activities within the lounge and club floor.

·       If your clothing is not "Street Legal," you must cover up in all public areas.

It's all really common sense.  Respect the rights of others to believe what they want to believe, and respect the club and club members right to privacy.  We strictly enforce all club and Virginia ABC policies.  

Don't delay !!  Go to our RSVP page and come see for yourself what a wonderful and fulfilling experience the lifestyle can be.

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DCT (Dreams Cum True)
Richard, 8401 Hampton Blvd., Suite 7 Box 203, Norfolk, VA 23505
757-578-6081 beeper
Swingers social club forming for NC, DC and VA. Classified ads, monthly parties. All lifestyles for open minded, health conscious adults. Singles & couples who can be themselves in a stress free environment among friends. Write for more information.

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Virginia's Secret

Virginia's Secret provides a fun and exciting environment for consenting adults to enjoy their uninhibited lifestyle. Explore your fantasies in a unique and exciting social Dance club atmosphere. Virginia's Secret is a Private by Invitation Only, Social Club catering to mature, open-minded adults.

We are located West of Richmond, VA.

Website Membership, and "SecretCard" Membership is available to select couples & single females ONLY.

Virginia's Secret is a friendly club for open minded adults. If this is your first time to a Lifestyle club then you picked the right place. Whether you're an experienced club go-er or just a bit curious, we offer a comfortable, no pressure lifestyle club environment for you to meet, eat, drink and be entertained.

We are all here to have the best times and share the uninhibited enjoyment associated with those who discover a new dimension to their lifestyle. When you visit our club and become familiar with the environment and meet some members, we are confident you will feel at ease.

Are you a bit shy? Don't worry. Many of our regular members will probably help "Break The Ice" by introducing themselves to you. It's their way of making you feel at home. There's never any pressure to do anything your not ready for, and if you simply want to sit and relax, then that's perfectly fine too. Feel free to ask questions and talk openly. You'll discover how helpful our regular members can be. Our members are polite, sophisticated and composed of a delightful variety of age (over21), culture, looks and styles.

Richmond Rondezvouz for Swingers

PARTIES ETC.
Ralph & Ann P.O. Box 17115 Richmond, VA 23226
804-282-0262
OFF PREMISE

Xes Entertainment
Fred or Bryan, PO Box 31424, Richmond, VA. 23294
(301) 672-5268, E-mail:information@xesentertainment.net
Xes Entertainment is the newest, and soon to be BEST, lifestyle organization in Virginia and the Mid-Atlantic region. We meet at hotels, in mansions, on yachts, and in other exotic, special places. We have designed our organization with one goal in mind: the complete and total satisfaction of our members in a premier, upscale environment. If you are tired of the "same ole thing" or don't want to start a "new life" with anything less than the best, we have something new, exciting, and perfect for you! Make friends, build relationships, meet beautiful, new people you may know for the rest of your life from across America and around the world! This is an absolutely NO PRESSURE environment. New members and guests get red carpet treatment including a colloquium on exactly what to expect and the etiquette of the lifestyle. Check out website for all the details, and prepare for the time of your life!

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Scotty P.O. Box 22643 Alexandria, VA 22304
703-352-2951
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Hampton Roads Couples
PO Box 7162, Hampton, Virginia 23666
Phone: 757-873-7221; Email: HRCouples@aol.com
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First Swingers Club In Virginia

Going to a swingers club can be an exciting but also daunting experience, especially for first-timers. Here are some tips and strategies to help ensure a positive and enjoyable experience:

Before going:

1. Research: Look up the clubs in your area. Read reviews, understand their rules, policies, and requirements (e.g., membership fees, dress codes, and conduct expectations). It's also a good idea to know the theme for the night if there is one.
2. Communication: Discuss with your partner what your expectations, boundaries, and comfort levels are. Remember, open and honest communication is key.
3. Contact the club: If possible, call or email the club. They can provide you with information about their establishment and can answer any questions you may have.
4. Prepare your essentials: Purchase any outfits or costumes you may need. Swingers clubs often have dress codes, ranging from casual to themed to very upscale, so ensure you're appropriately attired. Pack protection (condoms, dental dams, etc.). Some clubs provide these, but it's always safer to bring your own.

During your visit:

1. Respect boundaries: Everyone at the club is there to have a good time, but that doesn't mean everyone is open to everything. Make sure to respect the boundaries of others and expect them to respect yours.

2. Communicate: Talk with your partner throughout the evening. Check in with each other to ensure you're both comfortable with what's happening.

3. Consent is key: Always ensure that there is explicit consent from all parties involved before engaging in any activities.

4. Take it slow: Especially on your first visit, there's no need to rush into anything. Feel free to just observe and get a feel for the environment.

After your visit:

1. Discuss the experience: Talk about what you liked and didn't like. Was there anything that made you uncomfortable? Was there anything you'd like to try next time?

2. Aftercare: Depending on your experience, you might need some emotional or physical aftercare. Be supportive of each other and take care of any physical needs.

3. Plan for the next time: If you enjoyed your experience and feel comfortable going back, discuss what you might want to do differently for your next visit.

Remember, the most important thing is that you and your partner are comfortable and enjoying yourselves. Each person's experience with a swingers club can be very different, so it's important to do what feels right for you.